Summon Your Feminine Powers

I often find myself wondering how to be more me. You know; not being afraid to show my personality and embrace my femininity and natural feminine powers. If you've ever felt this way, I implore you to keep reading as you will learn how to change this.

I set out on a path to research how to do this and came across an interesting post that helped me understand some of the things I do and how to shift them in a way that my womanhood would be more represented.

It sounds kind of crazy right? I promise it will all make sense once you see the post too!

The post was written by Maureen Gilbert. She really appealed to me in the section when she talks about being powerful and how that is often associated with masculinity. Think about some of the things you try to do to feel and be powerful. Are those qualities associated with masculinity?

Mine certainly are. I’m one of those take charge ladies and I like that quality about myself but there are some times when I wonder if I am going about taking charge in a way that is truly in line with the person I am and want people to see me as.

Maureen breaks down the process of harnessing feminine power in to 3 steps.

1. Focus on the experience, not the results.

As soon as I read this statement, I knew exactly what she meant. Often, when we get a goal in mind, we laser focus in on the end result versus focusing on the journey. Imagine how your life and goals will change if you focus and what you want to feel and happen when you reach your goal rather than just getting to the end. The thought alone makes the journey all that much more wonderful.

2. State your preferences, and let someone else do the footwork.

This one is for those ladies who are in to making boss moves! This concept is actually something that I read about in a business book right before I opened my store but it can be applied to all areas of life. This secret weapon is leverage.

What that means for you Queen is setting your goals and preferences and delegating the task out to others to get to that end feeling. As a Queen, this concept is in your nature; sit on your thrown, make your rules and watch your people work.

3. Last but not least, Choose the power of connection and story-telling over rational debate.

This can be handy if you are ever in a situation where you need to try to convince others to see your point of view. We all know how intelligent you are Queen but the way to persuade does not lie in the mind but in your power to convince others to support your view with your experiences (see #1) and compassion. Use your power of storytelling to connect with others.

Employing these three steps can and will empower any woman to be more confident and exude powerful feminine energy with every blow of the wind.

Try out these methods and see how they work out for you.

To see the original post by Maureen, click here.

Until next time Queens.